simple days with bonnie rae

I was going to write about style. I was going to write about my changing shape, buying second hand, my new capsule- this popped out instead. “You are being presented with a choice: evolve or remain. If you choose to remain unchanged, you will be presented with the same challenges, the same routine, the same…

Would you rather have the pain of growing or the pain of staying where you are? I am often asked how I did it. How I survived the divorce. The separation, the secrets uncovered, the transition from family of three in a home I bought to single mama in an apartment alone- and that’s just…

When you can’t, you must. I’m finally sitting down to think about what I want from 2020. Yes, I have a word for this year, but there are many things I have on my heart (btw after re-reading my post, I think my real word for 2020 is…trust.) I’ve written before that I often take…

My word for 2019 was adventure- and oh what an adventure it was. Other words that describe this past year? Hustle, suffering, exhaustion, meditation, anger, fear, hope, love, laughter, kindness, connection, family, love, heartache, growth, collapse, beauty, new. I am so aware that I am only co-creating this life of mine. My goals and plans…